“Through her deep understanding of the dynamics at play in family interactions, Tosha empowers parents to transcend aggression and cultivate compassionate connections with their children, fostering true transformation within their families.“
“If you’re parenting a boy with aggressive behaviors and feel like you’re at the end of your rope, there is a lifeline for you. Tosha Schore’s “Out With Aggression” is practical, actionable, and best of all, effective. This course is for any family looking for a turning point toward peace and positive change.“
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“The aggression has decreased considerably!”
“The aggression has decreased considerably! We’re having a lot more fun and feel more connected.
The atmosphere at home has changed dramatically, it’s much more relaxed.”
~Out With Aggression Parent
Let’s face it,
You’re at your wit’s end with your son’s aggressive behavior
It feels like you’ve done everything and he’s STILL hitting, biting, grabbing, spitting, yelling, swearing, pushing, throwing.
You’ve tried gentle parenting, setting limits, bribing, disciplining, therapy, and more – but nothing has made a real difference.
If that sounds familiar, you’re in the right place!
My trainings have been used by over 20,000 parents worldwide to help their boys move past aggressive behaviors.
The good news is that there is nothing wrong with your child. There is hope. He just needs the right approach to leave this behind!
Because you’re done with:
Getting injured
“Our son attacks us out-of-the-blue, and nothing we try works.”
Your son’s aggression might come out of nowhere, happen all the time, or be a response to something simple like putting the iPad away.
You’re always on edge because you don’t know what will happen next: kicking, head-butting, hitting, or having a remote thrown at you.
It would be a HUGE relief to have your son’s aggression subside, fewer outbursts, and get hurt less.
Hurting emotionally
“I struggled with my son’s verbal aggression. I felt hopeless and didn’t know what to do. I’d get very upset and take it personally. I felt disconnected from my son.”
Hearing things like, “I wish you were dead” or “I wish you weren’t my mom” drives a wedge between you and your child.
You want your child to communicate in a healthy way and to have a good relationship with you.
Seeing siblings become aggressive
“My other kids are modeling his aggressive behavior.”
You worry (or notice) that your son’s behavior is rubbing off on their siblings.
Reduce violence, stop your kids from hurting each other, and prevent your other kids from picking up this behavior.
Feeling alone
“His behavior affects our relationships with everyone. Our friends won’t see our kids. Even their grandparents don’t really want to see them anymore. Our marriage is starting to deteriorate now too. I’m at a loss.”
It’s totally normal to feel afraid, embarrassed, and ashamed to talk about what’s really going on with your son.
Nobody gets what it’s like to have an aggressive child. You wonder what they think. Notice them pulling away. It’s so freaking isolating.
It would help to be around people who are going through the same thing and making real strides!
Being at odds with your partner
“My partner handles things much more authoritatively, and although I don’t agree with his approach, I don’t know the best way forward.”
You share the same goal, but have completely different ideas about how to get there.
You want to get on the same page as your partner, instead of using different approaches (and having none of them work!)
Having your child run the family
“My son gets mad, rude and nasty if he doesn’t get what he wants, the *exact* way he wants it.”
The whole family revolves around this boy.
Everyone tiptoes around him to avoid setting him off, which is especially difficult since he’s rigid and gets triggered easily.
You want your child to be part of the family, not run the family. Things would be so much easier if he was less demanding.
Acting out
“I try to be patient, but many days I end up losing my shit and screaming at my son after being pushed to the extreme.”
You sometimes lose it on your child because you just don’t know what to DO anymore.
You need tools to deal with this in an effective way, so you can be the parent you want to be.
Worrying about their future
The hardest part is worrying about what your sweet boy will be like as an adult. After everything you’ve tried so far, it feels hopeless.
You lie awake at night wondering if they’ll grow up to be violent, how they’ll treat women, if they’ll end up in jail.
You’re committed to helping your son overcome his aggression and grow into the sweet, well-adjusted person he’s meant to be!
Yes, your son can have less aggression, intensity, and outbursts!
Less aggression
“He is hitting much less often! And when he does start, we have much better tools to diffuse the situation before a full battle begins”
Better relationships
“He is now playing more with his younger brother, and using words instead of hitting when he gets frustrated”
More fun
“We have more fun together and I see the good in him more.”
More love
“Now he tells me every day that I’m the best, sweetest mom in the whole world. That is a huge shift!”
Deeper connection
“I am more connected to him, and I can recognize now when he needs help so we can avoid the outbursts.
Confidence
“I have tools to use now! And they work so well! I also feel much more confident in my parenting.
These are real outcomes that families with aggressive boys have gotten from…
Out With Aggression
This 6-week online program gives you the support, tools and plan to help your boy stop his aggressive behavior.
It works, even if you haven’t seen an improvement from following your doctor’s recommendations, books, courses, therapies, or other strategies.
Out With Aggression is different because it addresses the root cause of your son’s behaviors.
If you want to fix his aggression for good, you need to deal with what drives his aggressive behaviors.
Out With Aggression gives you the tools to do that.
Join now and get lifetime access to the 5-step training, plus 6 weeks of support in group video calls where I’ll answer your questions and give expert guidance!
Join Out With Aggression and get all this!
| ✔ Lifetime access to the Out With Aggression video course with practical steps that help your boy | Value: $1000 |
| ✔ Live group coaching calls to get all your questions answered | Value: $1600 |
| ✔ Listening partnership calls where you can vent and get things off your chest in a safe space | Value: $1600 |
| ✔ Exercises that create a long-lasting change in your boy’s behavior | Value: $500 |
| ✔ Printable & digital resources that you can keep on hand as quick cheat sheets | Value: $100 |
| ✔ Private online community where you can connect and get support from other parents | Value: $500 |
| ✔ Text message support with a direct line to Tosha | Value: $1000 |
| ✔ Sibling Solutions training to help your kids get along together | Value: $200 |
| ✔ Guest Expert Library with 14 interviews spanning an array of helpful aggression-specific topics | Value: $1000 |
| ✔ Get Your Partner On Board training so the two of you get on the same page with your parenting styles | Value: $200 |
The total value of the program is $7,700
Get started today for just $547!
Enjoy parenting again!
“Now I actually enjoy parenting again! My whole family is having more fun, laughing more, and feeling more connected.
His rough behaviors are almost non-existent now, and when they do happen, things go so much more smoothly.”
~Out With Aggression Parent
Reduce your son’s aggression in
4 simple steps:
Register
Join Out With Aggression
Watch
Watch the bite-sized step-by-step videos
Get Support
With live video calls, texts, and the community
Reduce Aggression
Use the tools to lower & prevent outbursts!
An improvement in aggression in just days
“I was surprised how just a few days of following the Out With Aggression system made an immediate and noticeable difference.”
~Out With Aggression Parent
You get tons of support along the way!
You might’ve read a lot about peaceful parenting, but actually doing it is a whole other ballgame.
Many parents tell me that my guidance made all the difference, which is why I’ve included many levels of support so I can meet you where you are!
Coaching calls
Bring your questions to these live group video calls, and I’ll help you out! There are 4 “everyone welcome” sessions, and 1 “dads only” call.
This is an amazing way to get my direct guidance and feedback on how things are coming together with your boy.
Everyone’s situation is different, so this is your opportunity to take the Out With Aggression system and personalize it to you and your family!
Listening Partnership calls
As a parent with an aggressive child, one of the best things you can do is get things off your chest.
This is a safe, non-judgmental, and supportive space to vent and talk things through.
Come away feeling lighter, refreshed, and re-energized so you’re able to better handle your boy.
There are 3 “everyone welcome” sessions, and 1 “dads only” call.
Online community
Lean on 100+ other parents who are dealing with aggressive boys! Finally, you’re surrounded by people who totally get it. Help is just a post away!
Text message support
You get 2 opportunities to text me directly!
I’ll respond and share how to handle a situation, give new insights, or give a great idea to help you out.
“Practical and digestible”
“Out With Aggression is so practical and digestible. It showed me how to use the tools effectively, and gave me so much confidence in my ability to help my boy.
I now approach issues from a calm and centered place. I’m more connected to my boy now, so I can help him in his moments of struggle.
I see him differently, and I truly believe he sees me differently too”
~Out With Aggression Parent
See inside the training!
Get instant access to all 5 modules with short video and audio trainings that you can listen to while on-the-go.
Perfect for listening on the way to school pick-up!
The videos are completely searchable, so you can quickly find what you need in seconds!
You also get downloads and resources that help you easily follow the Out With Aggression system.
Plus, this training is yours to keep! You have lifetime access so you can come back to it whenever you need.
Each week we go through a module and implement the steps. Every strategy builds on what came before, so it’s easy to add on your new tools!
MODULE 1
Set Yourself Up For Success
See how to:
- Make a real change in your son’s behavior by doing this FIRST (most people miss this!)
- Show your boy that you’re on his side and you’re here to help, so he’s open to your support
- Get people on board and have a support network that makes this process easy (no more feeling alone!)
- Understand the subconscious thoughts that drive his aggressive behavior
- Boost your confidence while reducing the shame and guilt that comes with having an aggressive child
- Read what his aggression is really trying to tell you
MODULE 2
Infuse Connection
See how to:
- Immediately connect with your child in a happy, positive way using the “crown jewel” of parenting tools
- Stop inadvertently increasing aggression by avoiding these common logical (yet incorrect) steps
- Find time to spend with your son (and actually save time, since you’ll have less outbursts)
- Prevent aggression with a simple daily practice that takes just minutes
- Diffuse your boy when he starts spooling up
MODULE 3
Play Detective
See how to:
- Identify the triggers that lead to outbursts so you can minimize or avoid them in the future
- Understand your child’s emotional state leading up to and during outbursts so you can best support them
- Forecast when aggressions are likely to arise and use preventative tools to sidestep an attack
- Increase your child’s self-awareness so they recognize their own patterns and can ask for help
- Improve family dynamics by quickly recognizing and intervening before he ‘goes off the rails’ so everyone stays calm
MODULE 4
Set Limits Like a Superhero
See how to:
- Confidently set limits in 3 simple steps
- Use limits to help your son become more flexible
- React to verbal aggression, without riling him up more
- Protect yourself in the heat of the moment, even if his aggressive behavior scares you
- Respond when your child yells at you to “GO AWAY!!!”
MODULE 5
Play Like Your Life Depends On It
See how to:
- Use play and fun to heal aggression
- Help your boy move through big emotions and stuck feelings
- Ground your boy with physical play strategies
- Interrupt aggressive spirals with effective play tactics
- Release aggression before it starts by ‘playing it out’
- Bring your whole family together with fun games and activities
Join now and get the step-by-step training to reduce or stop your son’s aggression!
Out With Aggression is transformational
“My experience has been transformative and eye-opening. I’ve spun 180° toward peaceful parenting.
It’s extremely action-oriented, and I’ve seen changes already after only a few weeks! I’m hopeful and excited to stay on this new path!”
~Out With Aggression Parent
Join now and get these amazing bonuses!
Plus, bonuses that make your family even more peaceful and connected!
Sibling Solutions
Turn sibling rivalry around with these short trainings that address the most common struggles that families with aggressive boys experience:
- Get your kids to share
- The healthy way to deal with fairness (it’s unusual, but it works!)
- Encouraging genuine apologies and reconciliation
- Preserving the sibling’s feelings and emotions
- Calm the fighting and get your kid on the same side
Value: $200
Guest Expert Library
No matter what you’re dealing with, there’s an interview in our library that can help you! These 14 interviews cover helpful topics like:
- Regulating your child by speaking to them in a helpful way
- Dealing with aggression in school
- Understanding the neuroscience behind aggression
- Managing aggression through sensory issues
- Calming aggression by addressing your child’s anxiety
Value: $1,000
Get Your Partner On Board
If you have a different parenting style than your partner, this is for you! See how to:
- Get on the same page as your partner so you can move forward
- Establish your parenting goals so you both come from the same place
- Talk to your partner when you don’t see eye-to-eye (and have positive “tough conversations” where you both win)
- Make your relationship stronger through parenting
- Use the differences in parenting styles in a beneficial way
Value: $200
Boys become happier, calmer, and better behaved
More hugs, flexibility & fun
“My son is happier, calmer, and he hugs me more.
He’s behaving better at school, and his self-esteem and eye contact has improved.
He’s less afraid, more flexible, funnier – he’s showing more of who he is.”
Better than other books & courses
“I can’t say enough great things about this course.
After having read so many books and taken multiple other courses,
This is the one that will ‘stick’ and make a difference in my life.”
Even other people notice a difference!
“A big win! My parents are visiting, and normally having a visitor is very dysregulating.
My daughter has actually been pretty good and calm.
My parents said they’ve noticed such a difference in her behavior!”
I completely understand what you’re going through
In case we haven’t met yet, I’m Tosha Schore – parenting coach, and mom of a boy who used to struggle with aggression.
I’m a certified Hand-In-Hand Parenting trainer, have helped tons of families, and have been featured in many summits, newspapers and magazines sharing how boys can overcome aggression…
But before I became an expert in the field, I was just another mom who lived in fear of getting hurt and worrying about my son’s future. It sucked!
You’re not alone – MANY of us are dealing with aggressive boys. And it doesn’t have to stay this way!
Out With Aggression gives you a clear and simple step-by-step system to help your boy move past this.
Your sweet boy is in there, underneath all the violent and disruptive behaviors.
It’s my mission to help your boy leave aggression behind and grow into the well-adjusted, fulfilled and happy person you want him to be!
Together we will create a more peaceful world, one sweet boy at a time!
“Out With Aggression was a turning point”
“My experience has been transformative and eye-opening. I’ve spun 180° toward peaceful parenting.
It’s extremely action-oriented, and I’ve seen changes already after only a few weeks! I’m hopeful and excited to stay on this new path!”
~Out With Aggression Parent
FAQ’s
What's the start date?
What age is this appropriate for?
What if I have girls too?
What if my boy has special needs?
While I don’t speak to specific neurodivergent situations, what I teach is applicable to neurodivergent children, and you can modify the practices for your unique situation. Also, I’m available in group or by text to guide you.
This course has immensely helped many parents of kids with ADD, ADHD, SPD, ODD and autism.
What if my partner's not on board?
How long will this course take to complete?
How quickly will I see results?
This really depends on you, your boy, and what’s going on in your life right now. As with everything, the more you put in, the quicker you will benefit.
If you take my hand as I guide you through, step-by-step, you will likely see signs of change very quickly.
Please understand, though, that this course is a practice. I teach you specific strategies to use with your boys (and girls too, if you have them). with the intention of you adopting them as your default parenting tools. We’re in this parenting thing for the long haul.
Can I access everything right away, or do I have to wait?
What if I purchase the course, and then decide it's not for me?
What if I have questions?
Email me at hello@parentingboyspeacefully.com
What if I can’t attend a live call?
You get the most out of Out With Aggression if you show up to the live calls, so I recommend you join us live.
We have calls spread out throughout the course at 9-10 AM PT and 1-2 PM PT.
If you’d like the call recordings, you’ll have the opportunity to join the membership to get ongoing support from me plus call recordings once you register for Out With Aggression. (You’ll also get an amazing special offer you’ll never see again!)
This could be you!
“I feel I am now able to undertake the best job in the world with knowledge and confidence and not dread the day ahead.”
“I feel so much better with this parenting approach. I used to dread when (my son) started to act up and now I look forward to it…on opportunity to help him heal.”
“Being home (with my son) and enjoying it. Feeling safe and cozy and connected is priceless. I’m grateful I have found you!”
You’re covered by the 30-day 100% Money Back Guarantee!
Out With Aggression is completely risk-free!
Join and follow along for up to 30 days. If you don’t see that this program will help you, just contact us and we’ll happily give you a 100% refund.
You can keep trying the same things you’ve been doing (which haven’t worked), or you can join us and get the proven steps to healing your son’s aggression.
You’re so ready to put an end to your son’s aggression
It’s time to stop the cycle of bribery, consequences and yelling. After all, it’s not helping anyway… and actually makes things worse!
The truth is that your child doesn’t want to act out – his aggression is a reflex from his underlying fear or anxiety.
Underneath the violence is just a sweet, scared boy.
To reduce or eliminate the outbursts, you need to address these root issues. And that’s what you’ll do in Out With Aggression.
You alone can make a difference!
It takes just one person to help your boy move past these issues.
Even if your partner isn’t on board, you can use the Out With Aggression system to help heal your son.
Chances are, your partner will come around to your approach once they see the incredible difference it makes!
Imagine…
- Nobody getting hurt
- The house is calm and peaceful
- Things aren’t getting broken
- You’re hopeful for your son’s future, instead of being scared
- You know how to handle aggression when it happens
- You’re confident in your abilities as a parent, no more losing your shit
- Your son has friends, gets invited to birthday parties, and people are excited to see him
- He’s happier, more cuddly, and opens up to you.
You actually enjoy being with your son!
Join Out With Aggression and get all this!
| ✔ Lifetime access to the Out With Aggression video course with practical steps that help your boy | Value: $1000 |
| ✔ Live group coaching calls to get all your questions answered | Value: $1600 |
| ✔ Listening partnership calls where you can vent and get things off your chest in a safe space | Value: $1600 |
| ✔ Exercises that create a long-lasting change in your boy’s behavior | Value: $500 |
| ✔ Printable & digital resources that you can keep on hand as quick cheat sheets | Value: $100 |
| ✔ Private online community where you can connect and get support from other parents | Value: $500 |
| ✔ Text message support with a direct line to Tosha | Value: $1000 |
| ✔ Sibling Solutions training to help your kids get along together | Value: $200 |
| ✔ Guest Expert Library with 14 interviews spanning an array of helpful aggression-specific topics | Value: $1000 |
| ✔ Get Your Partner On Board training so the two of you get on the same page with your parenting styles | Value: $200 |
The total value of the program is $7,700
Get started today for just $547!
What parents say to people who are thinking of joining:
“Do it. It’s the best time and money you will ever invest in your family!”
“If you want to raise kind boys, take this course!”
“Super helpful skills to help with these sweet boys. Would recommend.” 🙂
“You get so many practical ways to put this into practice – the words to say, specific reactions to real situations. And as soon as you try them, you begin to see results.”
“Do it!!!! Don’t delay. Now is the time to gain your confidence back and to fall back in love with your boy.”
“It’s worth every penny and an investment in bettering the lives of everyone in the family.”
~Out With Aggression Parent